Recently I've been talking to people and noticing a common thread. One that I thought was only applicable to me. It was a good reminder that one; I'm never alone in my experiences, and two, that no one is perfect, no matter how put together they appear. I hope you see that this means that YOU'RE never alone in your experiences. For those struggling with perfectionism like me, I hope this helps you realize that taken to an extreme, seeking perfection, is a waste of your energy. Rather than waste your energy on an unachievable goal, seek to reorient your goals to feeling healthy and at peace.

I feel like the idea of perfection is perpetuated by our inability to open up and be vulnerable. That also goes with saying that we may have had bad experiences when we do, as in we choose to be vulnerable with the wrong people, and then close back up.

We tend to not talk about the things we want to change or the things that are troubling us. I think that we just don't talk about these experiences with the right people and that's where we make a mistake. We'll either talk to someone we feel close to but that person can't relate or even want to talk about things on the same level, or we might talk to people who judge us for talking about taboo topics. This only makes us feel alone and isolated with a problem. So what do we do?

Well, what I've seen and done myself is that we learn to cope with it. We stop looking for a solution, and we just learn to "deal with it".

And then what happens?

We have this area of our lives that is a complete mess and we've resolved or given up on finding a solution for it because we tried, for a little while, or maybe for a long time, and nothing ever came from it. We may even get scared of what the change may bring to our lives.

I decided to write this article because I run across a lot of people who ask if they really need to spend hundreds or thousands of dollars on a spiritual cleanse. The simple answer is NO! Most of these people have been approached or have had a fake psychic tell them that they have a curse or a cloud of negative energy following them around and only this psychic can do this cleansing for them for an absurd amount of money. The main goal of these fake psychics is to control and manipulate you through fear, that is never ok. To read my article on fake psychics, click here.

In this article I focus on my favorite ways to cleanse my energy. I enjoy these methods because they are economical, effective, and simple. It is never required or necessary to spend hundreds or thousands of dollars on this routine, but you can if you really feel better afterwards and trust the psychic or healer you are working with. We live in the age of information and as such I find it valuable to share this information with you because I wish I knew about it when I needed it.

A spiritual cleanse consists of removing any negative energy from the psychic body and aura. If you are on this article, I’m sure you have heard of the aura. Spiritual people understand that we are spirits or souls with a body. Actually we have more than our physical body. These invisible bodies affect the way we think and feel and process energy around us. We use our physical body to receive this “invisible” information.

Negative energy simply means energy that is low vibrational, examples of low vibrational energy are: guilt, shame, fear, apathy, desire (jealousy), and anger that leads to violence. Psychics experience it as slower and denser energy. In my personal experience, I feel like it as if I’m walking through a room full of Jell-O, sometimes it does look darker as if there was an invisible umbrella in the room. A spiritual cleanse removes low vibrational energy from your psychic body that doesn’t belong to you. Everyone is susceptible to pick up negative energy from someone else or the environment, especially empaths.

You can follow these instructions with some regularity, myself as an empath and psychic, I do these either weekly or monthly depending on how many people I'm meeting or what places I'm going to.

My purpose for writing this blog post is to educate people that would like to find a good psychic. The more information I can give you, the less chance you’ll have of a negative experience. As a professional psychic I've seen plenty of suspicious and unprofessional behaviors from other “psychics”. I have read from distressed people wondering if they got scammed. In this post I'm sharing the 10 signs I've gathered that will tell you if a psychic is either fake and/or trying to scam you.
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​A fake psychic is someone who is pretending to have psychic abilities. They prey on the vulnerability of people to scam them out of their money. Often people interchangeably use fake psychic and psychic scam as the same thing. A psychic scam is a script that a fake psychic uses to trick you out of your money. It makes sense that someone who is pretending would have to use a script in order to gain money from unsuspecting people. This blog post highlights different parts of this script and the common behaviors of these scammers. The more of these signs you see someone displaying, the more chances are that they are fake and you should walk away.

They ask for your full name, date of birth, address, job title, and just about anything that makes you identifiable and can be used to find out details about you online. A real psychic only needs ONE type of information from you, it can be a picture of you, or your name, or date of birth. Each psychic works differently, wait until they tell you what information they need before volunteering any information to them. Just going by this one sign doesn’t mean they are fake, but can be a clue when paired with one or more of the following signs.

This is what’s called a cold-reading. A fake psychic who is an amateur cold-reader, will say something and then see how you react. They do this to gauge how close or far away they are from saying something true about you or your situation. Professional cold-readers usually have incredible shows in Vegas. You will find that they don’t use the title of “Psychic” because they know that what they are doing is just a show.

A fake psychic will focus on only giving you positive and hopeful messages even if there is an important message that needs your attention. A fake psychic wouldn’t be able to pick up on valuable information. Just being told that everything will work out without any clear indication of how is not psychic work, that’s just positive reinforcement and a way to keep you coming back for more. In sign #8 I point out how they make you dependent on them.

A fake psychic will claim and make people belief that they can have 100% accuracy. That is only possible if you’re not saying anything of value. This sign also includes making up reviews or deleting negative reviews. To be human is to err. The accuracy of a real psychic depends on their level of expertise, which comes with practice (something scammers aren’t interested in doing), and the strength of the connection to the client. This connection does not need to be fostered, it either exists or it doesn’t and varies within degrees of strength from person to person. The connection is either there from the beginning or it isn't.